HOW TO: get away with an ex (Part 2)

• Do not contact him/her, even if your instinct is to scream it all, any other contact is the right way. If you need to pour out call your bestie or take box lessons.

• Do not stalker his/her social media profiles to discover, investigate, understand and many other stupid things we do on social; think about this: it is like if someone gives you a baseball bat and you intentionally give it on your head. Things are not always as they appear.

• Focus on yourself, use this as an opportunity to find your deeper person and all the things you have put in a corner.

• Reflect consciously on the relationship to understand what really caused that sad final, without giving you all the faults.

• Let go away people who want to leave, reflect: is it sadder to go through a bad period, or to force someone who do not want to stay?

• Reflect, write it all, talk with others and throw it out in any way. One day this pain will teach you something and you will realize that every bad day will end as a good one does, simply a little bit slower.

  At last, one more short tip: remember that, soon or later, your trauma will make you stronger (and even funnier I mean).

Again, you’re welcome.